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Let's be honest we all gossip at some point about someone. Maybe harmless , maybe not but today we want to talk about people who are addicted to gossip. Why is it that in today's social world people are so drawn into gossip ?
We have a toxic culture where many persons spend their time invested in other people's lives . Why are we so obsessed with what people are doing in their lives. People would rather subscribe or watch channels that are into mix up or scandals than subscribing to a motivational channel or one that is positive
This is why magazines and news channels that can highlight negative news about celebrities makes money. And this is why photographers will go to great lengths to get photographs of celebrities.
The news cycle comes at us very fast and normally drowns us with whatever the topic is at the time. People will continuously  feed on this until there is another scandal to replace it
How is it that humans will submerge themselves in gossip for many hours while ignoring their own lives . But what exactly causes a person to be drawn to toxicity. Many people use gossip as away to deflect from what is happening in their own lives
By gossiping it takes away from their own miserable life. Gossiping brings people together and in today's social world everyone wants to appear to be with it , so even in a negative culture many persons prefer to be on the wrong side and will prefer go to be malicious by gossiping.
People gossip for many different reasons, as I said some people gossip to deflect from their misery and misery loves company. but many people also gossip because they feel so bad about themselves therefore because they are feeling awful the only way for them to feel better is by putting some one else down.
Our appetite for gossip in this social media era has become preoccupied with what other people are doing that we see where many persons being gossiped about have filed lawsuits for defamation of character or harassment.
Gossiping if it gets out of hand can be bullying pending on the person's intention. They are people who gossip for the sole purpose of hurting, or demeaning someone . But the question still remains why do people gossip and why are so many people on social media platforms spending their time following and commenting on mixup channels
Many bloggers build their channels by bashing others. They create thumbnails to attract to viewers as click bait to let them click on it. Even many celebrities such as artist and actors will do publicity stunts on social media in order to build public views on their latest movie or music
According to scientists the human's brain is wired for gossip which is why many people will normally run towards danger instead of running away from it. It is claimed that humans are curious and this is the reason why someone is more inclined to listen to gossip because they want to hear what is being said. The truth is gossip sells and unfortunately many people are more focused on the negative than the positive
As technology evolve so has negativity and corporations and news media has wired our brain to receive all the negativity around us by feeding it to us on a daily basis. Our brains in turn has become wired towards negative energy and it seems as if we cannot get enough of it
Despite many people being into gossip there are still many positives around us and there are  still many people who are allergic to gossip that they refuse to get caught up in the negativity.
The root cause of gossip sometimes stem from jealousy or even sometimes people wanting to know what other people are doing and in some cases people who idolizes public figures hearing gossip about them gives them something to talk about. There are also people who just derive pleasure from seeing someone having difficulties.
Gossiping and being negative is a choice. though we all honestly gossip about something or someone, to be compulsive about gossiping is not good. Simply try and always look for the good in everyone and everything. It is hard not to get sucked into all the negativity around us in the media and on the social channels, but try and be positive and not get caught up into the web of negativity.
This doesn't mean that we all do not at some point view negative things online or in the news but it doesn't mean we have to be drawn into an endless negativity of gossip.
Simply live life on your own terms creating a simple lifestyle without toxicity and negativity. Leave your comments below and let us know your thoughts on having a negative mindset .

 This past week on September 30,2021, we had truth and reconciliation day in Canada to honour the indigenous children who were abused in public schools. As we remember this horrific past in our history this serves as a reminder how important it is for us to learn from our past.

Around the world there are so many horrific incidents such as Slavery and the Holocaust, just to name a few.  Though we continue to make strides enough is not being done to educate the wider population as well as world wide to make sure that generations to come will learn from the past.

First Nations populations still have many issues facing them both in Canada and the states, just as minorities. As we face the truth with regards to the abuse of these children, let us also not just mark it as one day but make an effort to listen more and to start including sensitive history as a part of our schools curriculum.

The only way to understand the past is talk about it openly even if it feels uncomfortable. We must educate the next generation by talking to them openly about how these incidents has shaped us. Our past history matters.

As we move forward let's not forget our past. Let simplicity meets you were you are. . Leave your comments below and let me know your thoughts on how to honour our past history

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In today's blog post I want to talk about the art of being alone and why is it that people are afraid to be alone. We did a video sometime ago that looks at the difference between being alone and being lonely. Why is it that many persons are so afraid of being alone that they prefer to stay in a toxic relationship
If I had a dollar for every time I hear someone says I do not want to be alone I would be a millionaire by now. It is believed by many persons that in order to feel validated then someone has to be in their lives. I am not saying that it is not a fundamental need for humans to feel needed or want to be loved


However it is important to spend time with yourself and know who you are as a person. If you are not fulfilled as a person then chances are even in a relationship you will still feel empty because you will be relying on some else to make you feel whole
Being alone is a state of mind as there are many persons who are in a relationship and yet they still feel alone. The need to always be in a relationship stems out of fear as they are some persons who are afraid being by themselves. They are afraid of facing their insecurities therefore they think that being with someone makes them feel wanted


Then there are some people who do not want to be alone because of social pressure. According to Social norms if you are not married or in a relationship then something is wrong with you. Because of this idea many persons especially women will force themselves into relationships even when it is unhealthy
Many persons as soon as they end one relationship they will start another without giving themselves time to heal from one relationship before starting another. the dysfunction and baggage will be a continuous cycle. these type of people always blame their partners instead of seeing where the problem lies
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We must take the time to spend time with ourselves and find out who we are. You cannot love someone fully until you are aware of who you are . if
you are afraid to be alone then you must face this fear by having honest discussions with yourself


write down on paper what your feelings are about being alone and why is it you have these feeling. When you are not in a relationship how does that makes you feel ? continue to write down the pros and cons to being in a relationship
based on the outcome of what you have written if you need help to work through your feelings then you should seek professional help or speak with someone
Please note I am not saying that it is wrong for people to want to be in a relationship but we have been socialized to feel that something is wrong with people who choose to be alone . We have been programmed to believe that we must always have someone in our life, therefore many persons are afraid to be alone
many people have become obsessed with always having someone in their life. People with today's social media are so afraid to be lonely that they do not give themselves time to heal and assessed themselves after a break up
we see this with many holly wood stars who go in and out of relationships and therefore you have many ordinary persons who also try to imitate this lifestyle in the social media era. they need to always have someone to post so others can see
The need to be love, understood and cared for is important with the right person and for the right reasons at the right time. These needs are biological therefore it is not that it is wrong to want to be with someone. The issue is the fear to be alone that many persons will remain in unhealthy relationships or repeat the process of toxic relationships and yet refuse to see the problem lies within themselves
Learn to be alone for a while and reflect on yourself when you have ended a relationship . Take time to heal and take time for yourself . Know that it is ok to be alone, it is ok to spend time with your self


Being alone is not a bad thing nor is wanting to be in a relationship, the point is knowing thats it ok either way therefore you do not feel pressured to be in a relationship just to appease social norms


simplify your life by spending time with yourself. learn to meditate and be alone for a few minutes each day even if you are in a relationship . Appreciate that being with someone will not make you happy . When we learn to be still we appreciate who we are and learn about ourselves. When you do get into a relationship you will have a deeper understanding of who you are. leave your comments below
until next time let simplicity meets you where you are. Follow us on instagram@simplicityseeu & visit our website www.simplicityseeu.ca