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Let's be honest we all gossip at some point about someone. Maybe harmless , maybe not but today we want to talk about people who are addicted to gossip. Why is it that in today's social world people are so drawn into gossip ?
We have a toxic culture where many persons spend their time invested in other people's lives . Why are we so obsessed with what people are doing in their lives. People would rather subscribe or watch channels that are into mix up or scandals than subscribing to a motivational channel or one that is positive
This is why magazines and news channels that can highlight negative news about celebrities makes money. And this is why photographers will go to great lengths to get photographs of celebrities.
The news cycle comes at us very fast and normally drowns us with whatever the topic is at the time. People will continuously feed on this until there is another scandal to replace it
How is it that humans will submerge themselves in gossip for many hours while ignoring their own lives . But what exactly causes a person to be drawn to toxicity. Many people use gossip as away to deflect from what is happening in their own lives
By gossiping it takes away from their own miserable life. Gossiping brings people together and in today's social world everyone wants to appear to be with it , so even in a negative culture many persons prefer to be on the wrong side and will prefer go to be malicious by gossiping.
People gossip for many different reasons, as I said some people gossip to deflect from their misery and misery loves company. but many people also gossip because they feel so bad about themselves therefore because they are feeling awful the only way for them to feel better is by putting some one else down.
Our appetite for gossip in this social media era has become preoccupied with what other people are doing that we see where many persons being gossiped about have filed lawsuits for defamation of character or harassment.
Gossiping if it gets out of hand can be bullying pending on the person's intention. They are people who gossip for the sole purpose of hurting, or demeaning someone . But the question still remains why do people gossip and why are so many people on social media platforms spending their time following and commenting on mixup channels
Many bloggers build their channels by bashing others. They create thumbnails to attract to viewers as click bait to let them click on it. Even many celebrities such as artist and actors will do publicity stunts on social media in order to build public views on their latest movie or music
According to scientists the human's brain is wired for gossip which is why many people will normally run towards danger instead of running away from it. It is claimed that humans are curious and this is the reason why someone is more inclined to listen to gossip because they want to hear what is being said. The truth is gossip sells and unfortunately many people are more focused on the negative than the positive
As technology evolve so has negativity and corporations and news media has wired our brain to receive all the negativity around us by feeding it to us on a daily basis. Our brains in turn has become wired towards negative energy and it seems as if we cannot get enough of it
Despite many people being into gossip there are still many positives around us and there are still many people who are allergic to gossip that they refuse to get caught up in the negativity.
The root cause of gossip sometimes stem from jealousy or even sometimes people wanting to know what other people are doing and in some cases people who idolizes public figures hearing gossip about them gives them something to talk about. There are also people who just derive pleasure from seeing someone having difficulties.
Gossiping and being negative is a choice. though we all honestly gossip about something or someone, to be compulsive about gossiping is not good. Simply try and always look for the good in everyone and everything. It is hard not to get sucked into all the negativity around us in the media and on the social channels, but try and be positive and not get caught up into the web of negativity.
This doesn't mean that we all do not at some point view negative things online or in the news but it doesn't mean we have to be drawn into an endless negativity of gossip.
Simply live life on your own terms creating a simple lifestyle without toxicity and negativity. Leave your comments below and let us know your thoughts on having a negative mindset .
I believe in living life in a simple yet fulfilling stratosphere. Simple doesn't mean denying yourself of all the great things that life has to offer. Life was meant to be lived on your own terms and not on someone else's. It is about you.